Euphemisms

What are they?

Euphemisms are so common in the English language that you hear them everyday but their meanings are not always clear. They help make statements softer and reduce the rudeness of harsh language by changing them to indirect or mild statements. As such they are necessary in any conversation. 

There are so many of them and often several different expressions describe the same thing. One example of an embarassing topic is death. A euphemism like "passed away" is more respectful and implies the person died in a respectable and comfortable manner. On the other hand "pushing up daisies" sends the message that one died through violence.

Why do we use them?

Mostly to be polite but sometimes to hide what we are really trying to say. With a euphemism I can be rude and insulting while still maintaining the image of a polite person.

If I describe someone with the expression"ample proportions" is it just another way to say they are fat, chubby, a tub of lard or something else? Of the countless possible meanings which one do you think would be more embarassing, talking about body weight or a woman's extremely large breasts? That's what we can do with euphemisms.

Where can I find them?

Everywhere. From telling people you have to use the bathroom to describing your addiction as a "problem" you are using them. It's almost impossible to completely get away from them so the only thing to do is ignore the grammar books and get out and meet people who will use them. If that is difficult to do then turn on the TV. You can find numerous examples throughout. Especially in comedy. There is nothing funnier than trying to describe the world's ugliest baby while still telling the truth. 

Some examples.

(1) He was stretching the truth when he said that he was (2) under the weather. 

In truth he's just a (3) bit unmotivated but that's okay. 

He was (4) never the sharpest tool in the shed to begin with. 

1. Lying

2. Sick

3. Lazy

4. Stupid 

What should we do?

When you come across a euphemism that you are having trouble with the best thing you can do is just guess what it might be referencing. Most of the time the context will make it somewhat clear and from that you may be able to figure it out. When it isn't then the best thing you can do is ask the person you are talking to to explain it or check Google.